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Designed by Tom Ford by Haider Ackermann, Jolies dress epitomized high-fashion effortlessness

Yes, black tie optional is slightly less formal

Take this Farm Rio style, for instance: Its grayscale mosaic print mimics a disco ball, and its sleeveless twirly silhouette is perfect for the dance floor

"We take it easier and we are kinder to ourselves after a couple of days of walking around and getting used to seeing ourselves in the mirror again because, in the winter, most of us don't strip off and stare at our bodies, says the 53-year-old

You can also step up the color game and go with a floral print shirt with a few top buttons undone

If it's a funeral that you've organised, thinking about a funeral outfit is usually the last thing on your mind when you've lost a loved one - and you might have left it all to the last minute