blue white checkered dress Frances Valentine Women's Michelle Midi Gingham - this short dress is versatile and stylish Black and White Checker Dress,

If youre not quite ready to nurture your maternal instincts, you could also be the Incredibles eldest child, Violet, in the same costume

For guests: looking festive without competing As a guest, your goal is to look polished and celebratory while honoring the couple and leaving the bridal spotlight to the bride-to-be

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Light grey is one of my favorite go to neutrals and the ruffles add a soft feminine flair to the dress

Dress: Fifteen Twenty Vest: Michael Stars (50% off!) Leggings: Lyss Necklace: BaubleBar Hat: Forever 21 (similar) Bag: YSL Boots: BCBG (similar) Sneakers: New Balance Nails: Essie Gel Couture Lace Me Up

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